There are tons of factors that go into deciding whether or not you should leave your partner or stay with him/her. There is noway that can all be covered here in a short post, but there are definitely some things and questions to ask yourself to think about.
These Questions Are:
Is your partner truly wanting to make it work after being caught? This is probably the most important question you can ask yourself. If he or she is, then this is a huge must and first step to repairing the broken relationship.
Things to consider when thinking about this question:
o Do you know for sure that your partner has 100% ended the affair?
o Has he or she told you that they are truly sorry and given a heart felt apology?
o Is he or she looking for help such as a counselor or a program like How To Survive An Affair like this site offers?
o Is your partner ready to call it quits or is there a reason they might have cheated just to get out of the relationship??
o Is your partner willing to and ready to be more available such as calling you more and letting you where he or she is more often?
o Have you talked about the affair in any detail at all to him or her? Do you feel like you know 100% of the story now?
o If you knew that your marriage could actually be better than it is now ( and this is possible with this program) are you willing to work to make it work?
o Is all the emotional things that you are going to have to go through to mend your relationship worth it?
o If there were some sort of wish pill you could take that made it all better and you could be happily in love with one another again, would you take it?
o Is there any changes that you would like to see your partner make and if so would he or she be willing to change for you?
Being able to answer these questions (certainly not all the questions) should give you somewhat of an idea of whether or not to stay or go.
Whatever you decide to do, one thing you can be sure of; there is only one person who can make such a big decision and that is you and not noone else. Remember that because you will definitely have friends or family that will probably try to influence your decision. The good news is it doesn’t have to be over. There is not set in stone law that your relationship has to be over because of an affair.
In all truth, there are millions of marriages today that are actually better than they were before after getting some real professional help. Find more help today in the Surviving An Affair program.
